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We’ve all met them – people who make you feel less, worse or just… drained. They leave you tired, confused, frustrated or depressed. Often without you really understanding why. <\/em><\/strong>
\nThese are toxic people – individuals whose behavior literally poisons their environment.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Being around a toxic person is like being exposed to a slow-acting poison. Their behavior damages your self-esteem, your calm and your energy. In some cases, it resembles a kind of parasitic behavior – cold, empathic and manipulative. <\/p>\n

Therefore, it is important that you learn to recognize these people in time. That you don’t let them get under your skin, because healing can otherwise take a long time. <\/p>\n

Here are 11 clear signs that a person is toxic – and how to identify them to protect yourself. Avoiding them… is the best medicine. <\/p>\n

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11 signs that a person is toxic <\/strong><\/h2>\n
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  1. Spreads negativity and bad energy<\/strong>
    \nThey make the room feel heavier. You feel drained after meeting them. <\/li>\n
  2. Often criticizes and judges<\/strong>
    \nThey point out your (and others’) flaws – preferably in public. Criticism is rarely constructive but patronizing. <\/li>\n
  3. Jealousy pervades their behavior<\/strong>
    \nInstead of rejoicing in the success of others, they try to diminish or sabotage it.<\/li>\n
  4. Lying without blinking<\/strong>
    \nDishonesty is commonplace. They betray and deceive – and only blame others. <\/li>\n
  5. Everything revolves around them<\/strong>
    \nThey have a big ego. Your well-being is secondary – if it even counts. <\/li>\n
  6. Projecting their own faults and behavior onto you<\/strong>
    \nThey place blame and responsibility on you for their own bad behavior. Often narcissistic. <\/li>\n
  7. Manipulate and control<\/strong>
    \nThey use flattery, guilt or drama to control you. At first they seem wonderful – until you get stuck. They oscillate between being positive and then reverting to habitual, intentionally harmful behavior. <\/li>\n
  8. Living for drama<\/strong>
    \nSmall things become big. They thrive on chaos because it keeps them in power. They are drama queens. <\/li>\n
  9. Often playing the victim<\/strong>
    \nThey rarely take responsibility, but feel sorry for themselves – and expect you to do so too.<\/li>\n
  10. Don’t want to change<\/strong>
    \nThey see nothing wrong with their behavior. Criticism is met with defense or attack. Self-awareness is lacking, and they are often unable to change. <\/li>\n
  11. Empathy is seen as a weakness <\/strong>Psychopaths lack conscience and natural empathy – and therefore see empathy in others as a weakness to exploit.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Understanding this is the beginning of protecting your energy.<\/strong>
    \nYou deserve relationships that lift you up – not break you down.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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    Psychopathic traits<\/h2>\n
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    Toxic people often have false selves, and are terrified of – or unable to connect with others with love and joy.<\/p><\/div>\n

    People with varying degrees of psychopathic traits lack the ability to empathize with those around them. They know what is right and wrong to do, but feel they are above the rules and norms of society. They justify their own behavior and lack what is normally called a conscience. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

    Psychopathy is at the intersection of narcissistic, borderline and antisocial personality disorder – the so-called acting-out disorders. It is a serious diagnosis with personality traits and social dysfunctions that require a deeper investigation. <\/p>\n

    A full-blown psychopath is prepared to do anything to get their way. He or she is happy to take credit when things go well, but ensures that others are blamed for failures. <\/p>\n

    Since this extremely self-centered and harmful behavior has increased greatly in recent decades, I want to address it here. Narcissism is rewarded and some researchers believe that it has increased as much as obesity has increased in the last 30-40 years. If we are not careful, they can take over, we need to show that it is not ok and jointly counteract such behavior. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n

    MISCONNECTED BRAIN – when empathy is missing<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Brain scan research shows that psychopaths’ brains are miswired<\/strong>. When they see someone happy – they get depressed. When they see someone sad – they gloat. <\/p>\n

    One woman said that her ex-husband forbade her to laugh<\/strong> because it “bothered him”. Another said her ex was good when she was bad<\/strong> – and bad when she was happy. Unfortunately, this is exactly how it works. <\/p>\n

    Learned – but not genuine empathy<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    Psychopaths can sometimes show learned empathy – but they don’t feel<\/em> it. They only have some pity when they can imagine themselves in the same situation. But they cannot feel genuine compassion for another human being. <\/p>\n

    No conscience. No regrets.<\/strong> They lack:<\/h4>\n